If youâre struggling to get genuine engagement and shares on your blog posts, I got your back! In this article, Iâm going to teach you how to write engaging blog posts that your readers will LOVE.
When they love your stuff, theyâll share your stuff. And more shares equal more blog traffic. Yay!
WHY BLOG ENGAGEMENT MATTERS
We all want more eyes on our blogs. Blog growth can mean more impact and more income for our business. And when people engage with your blog, it tells search engines that you are AWESOME and that more people should see your blog.
Keep in mind, weâre talking about GENIUNE engagement here.
Search engines are smart (Google, Pinterest, all of them) and they can tell where your traffic is coming from and why people are engaging with your blog. Asking your mama to comment on every blog post isnât going to do much good in the long run.
We want DIE-HARD fans!
People that continuously read our stuff, love our stuff, and share our stuff online. People that genuinely benefit from what weâre sharing on our blogs.
This is why we have to learn how to write engaging blog posts.
And hereâs how!
HOW TO WRITE ENGAGING BLOG POSTS
First and foremost, you have to know WHO your audience is and WHAT they want to see from you.
And you donât have to get crazy-deep into this right now, because your audience and their needs will get clearer as you start writing content and getting feedback on that content.
For now, itâs just important to think about WHY people come to blogs and WHY your kind of people will want to come to your blog.
So, here’s rule # 1 for writing awesome content that people will want to engage with.
1. REMEMBER WHY PEOPLE COME TO BLOGS
People are searching online for information, inspiration, and entertainment.
Think about it: things usually go viral because they are mind-blowing or hilarious or motivating.
This is because we are all searching online for something, and when that âsomethingâ hits us at the right moment, we all go crazy and share it with the world.
We donât need to âgo viralâ to be successful, but we do need to understand how people think and act online if we want to write engaging blog posts.
Figure out who your ideal readers are and what theyâre searching for online. This will help you decide what kind of content you should be writing!
Some ideas for questions you can ask yourself:
– Are my potential readers busy moms that can only consume small bits of information at a time (shorter blog posts, broken up into clear sections)?
– Are my potential readers well-educated business people that want to see detailed reports and analytics (long-form content with lots of charts and images)?
– Do my potential readers want to learn something specific from me, gain inspiration from me, or enjoy something entertaining that I have to share?
– Do my potential readers like images, text, video, a mixture of all of the above?
Keep adding to this list and answering these questions thoroughly until you have a super clear picture of your ideal audience and what they want to see from your blog.
If you donât have an audience yet, thatâs okay. Think of the POTENTIAL PERSON youâd like to draw back to your blog.
And make sure youâre being helpful to them in some way.
2. KEEP IT RELEVANT
Now that we know who weâre writing for and what they want to see from us, let me reiterate the most important thing you will ever learn in your blogging career.
It is alllllll about your readers!
Always and forever. No matter what.
EVERYTHING that you publish on your blog should be helpful and relevant to your target readers.
Doesnât matter what I think. Doesnât matter what your mama says. And it doesnât matter what Know-It-All Joe blabs about in that blogging Facebook group you follow.
Figure out who your ideal readers are, what they want, and write LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS of content that is relevant to them.
Do they care about the latest news? Incorporate some of that info your posts, if itâs relevant. Do they care about celebrity gossip? Go ahead and name drop here and there, if itâs relevant.
For example:
Did I ever tell you that I met the pro-wrestler Goldberg at a McDonaldâs once?!
My first celebrity sighting ever. I was a young woman, totally giddy, and asked Goldberg to take a picture with me. HE DID! I have the proof!
After the picture, I stepped down off the curb and a car almost hit me! Goldberg SERIOUSLY pulled me back up onto the curb and told me to be careful, because âmost drivers are not paying attention.â I melted. Then I got into my car and drove home. The end.
NowâŠ. Thatâs a TRUE story, it really did happen to me! But, is it relevant or useful or interesting to YOU in any way? The person thatâs here on my blog trying to learn how to write engaging content?
Not really (although you might have gotten a kick out of the story).
The point is: make sure you are sharing information/content that is relevant to your audience and where THEY are in life.
Remember who you are speaking to, and make sure youâre giving them solid takeaways every time they are on your blog â not pointless ramblings.
3. SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES
Experiences shape our lives, and the experiences of other people can teach us valuable things!
Yes, we want to make sure that our content is RELEVANT to our audience, but we also want to incorporate our personal experiences and stories into the mix, to remind the reader that we are REAL PEOPLE.
In an automated world, itâs a pleasant change of pace to hear from a real person that has feelings, emotions, and experiencesâŠjust like you and me.
Would one of your biggest mistakes or biggest regrets be helpful in conveying your blog post message to your audience?
What about a lesson that you learned from your parents, or a professor, or a friend?
Incorporate personal experiences and real-life stories into your posts whenever they are helpful or relevant.
Want to write engaging content? Let your readers know that you are HUMAN and you have valuable things to share with them!
4. MAKE IT A CONVERSATION
Reading your blog posts should feel like talking to a friend. While you are technically doing the âtalkingâ, you should be creating opportunities for your reader to pause and think, to nod along, to answer a rhetorical question.
The easiest way to do this is to remember the pattern of pleasant conversation: you talk, I talk, you talk, I talkâŠ
Example:
Letâs say youâre writing a blog post about the best travel tips for parents with small children. You might start with âtalking to your readerâ for a sentence or two, and then following up with a point that gives them a chance to agree, disagree, or pause for thought.
Something like this: If youâre traveling to Mexico with your small children this year, I have some life-saving travel tips that are going to save your sanity. I promise! But first I need to know, have you ever traveled with your small children before?
This is where your reader gets to feel involved, answer your question, and then continue to see what you have to say.
Not every blog post needs to be formulated exactly like this. However, you should make sure your blog posts are warm and friendly, like chatting with a friend or learning something valuable from someone you trust and enjoy talking to.
5. BREAK UP THE TEXT
Let me say it louder for the people that are skimming this postâŠ
BREAK. UP. THAT. BLOG. POST. TEXT.
Iâm not yelling at you, I promise. Iâm just saying this in loud, bold letters so my scrollers can see it!
I see you, scroller.
Most of our readers are on mobile and reading crowded text on a phone is very unpleasant. You need to use super short paragraphs and lots of white space between paragraphs, so the text doesnât look overwhelming.
If it looks overwhelming at a glance, no one is going to engage with your blog post.
Look at this example and tell me which one is easier to read (these are mobile screenshots):

Yeah, the one on the right is DEFINITELY easier on the eyes, lots of short paragraphs and white space between them to break up the text.
I know these little almost-paragraphs defy the English rules we learned in school â I was an English major for half of my college career and an English tutor for years and years and years.
I get it. Itâs weird and feels wrong at first.
But, we arenât writing for our English professors or for a grade. Weâre writing for our readers and for search engines.
Google wants us to break up text. Readers want us to break up text. So, break up that text babe!
You can do it, I promise.
Side note: did you catch how many times I specifically spoke to you, acknowledged you, or asked you to respond (like a conversation) in this section?
Yup â thatâs how it done!
6. USE A LARGER FONT
This goes hand in hand with point number five. Thereâs just no way around it.
Most of our blog readers are using their mobile devices to read and engage with our stuff. If you want people to enjoy and engage with your stuff, you need to make sure they can SEE your blog posts clearly on their phone, without straining their eyes.
Hereâs a great article from Mediavine on the importance of a larger blog font.
If you want the cliff-notes, here they are: Google wants you to have a larger font size in your blog posts. Make sure your blog posts have a MINIMUM text size of 16px (pixels), ideally at least 18px, or larger.
And remember, 16px is essentially 12pt (points), which is still pretty darn small.
That blog post on the right side in the example up above is 18pt font size!
Bottom line: increase that font size and do it ASAP.
Here is an easy tutorial that shows you how to change your font in WordPress.
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7. MAKE SURE YOUR CONTENT IS RELATABLE
This might sound like a repeat of point number one, but itâs definitely not.
Being relevant and being relatable are two different things.
Creating relevant content involves knowing who your READER is and what is relevant to them and their needs. Creating relatable content involves YOU being someone that your reader can connect with.
I recently watched a standup comedian do a skit about being ârelatable.â
She joked that her friend didnât think she was really relatable anymore because her life had changed so much since she had done standup comedy 15 years previous. Essentially saying that once you have âmade itâ in show business, and you have a lot of money, your experiences are no longer relatable to the average person.
Of course, it was a joke. But there is a lesson in there too! If people canât relate to you and connect with you, they are not going to want to engage with you.
So, donât speak to people from a place of entitlement or superiority. Donât speak to them as if you âmade itâ and youâre giving them the honor of being in your glorious blogging presence.
Always speak from a place of humility and connection!
Can your audience relate to working late hours? Talk about it. Can your audience relate to newborn babies and explosive poopy diapers? Talk about it. Can your audience relate to the struggle of trying to pull themselves out of homelessness or toxicity? TALK ABOUT IT.
We wonât be relatable to everyone under the sun, and thatâs okay.
Just try to be relatable to your target audience.
8. KEEP IT LIGHTHEARTED
Some content just isnât lighthearted no matter which way you spin it, and thatâs something that weâll have to accept. If weâre writing about loss or deep struggles, itâs difficult to make that seem cheerful or humorous.
However, keep this one in mind for those times that you CAN be somewhat lighthearted. And be sure to intentionally search for opportunities to be lighthearted. It will help your readers to lighten up too.
There are always some unpleasant events and circumstances happening in the world, in the news, on the internet. All around us. If we want our audience to read our blogs, we cannot be knowingly adding to their stresses.
We should be refreshing our readers!
So, do your best to have a cheerful tone and an optimistic attitude in your writing, whenever possible. It will come across for your readers, and theyâll remember.
Once upon a time, I read a blog post from a woman who wrote about her mental health. The post was very honest and open, which is always a good thing. But it was also incredibly negative and discouraging.
I felt depressed after reading it. And I definitely didnât get anything out of it that made my day BETTER. If nothing else, it made my day worse.
There is an exception to the rule, though.
If your blog is a personal journal and you just use it to share your thoughts with the world, then ignore these tips completely. Blog on!
But, if youâre trying to write ENGAGING content that your readers will love and share with others, you need to remember that your words do affect the people reading them.
What thoughts and feelings do we want to leave in their minds and hearts when they leave our blog?
Something to think about.
9. DONâT RAMBLE: STAY FOCUSED
Pretty self-explanatory, but letâs ramble about it for a moment, shall we?
All of your blog posts should have an end GOAL.
Remember what I said under tip number two in this article: itâs alllll about your readers.
They are here for a reason, and we need to lead them from Point A to Point B seamlessly. No rambling, unless this is a quirky part of your branding that your readers will fully understand and enjoy.
Your thoughts should flow from one to the next, and your reader should reach the end of your post saying, âthat totally makes sense.â Not, ‘what the heck did I just read?!â
How do we do this?
Start with an outline. Before writing your blog post, think about the end GOAL and jot down main points.
Letâs say your end goal is to help your readers save money on groceries. Awesome.
How many tips are you going to offer in the blog post? Letâs go with five. Perfect.
What thought are we going to circle back to at the end of each tip? Saving money on groceries.
Stay focused on the goal.
10. INJECT MORE PERSONALITY
More than likely, you need to add a little more personality and flare to your posts. We all do.
You might not know how to do this, and thatâs why I’m here!
Injecting more personality just means showing off your personality, voice, quirks, and humanness a little bit more.
If youâre funny, be a little âextraâ funny. Add more jokes to your post. A funny meme. A relevant GIF.
Use more anecdotes…more illustrations, more slang, more quirkiness.
Again, all of these things depend on you and your personality. You donât want to âcopyâ someone elseâs personality or quirks or writing style.
It just wonât work.
You have to think about your own character traits, flaws, stories, and life âŠ. And find creative ways to inject them into your blog posts.
You want more engagement? Give people something fun and interesting to engage with!
11. ASK THEM TO ENGAGE
Last but not least, the most overlooked blog writing tip of them all.
Always ask your audience to give you something back at the end of your post.
This is sometimes referred to as a call-to-action (CTA). And if you did your job well, your blog reader will reach the end of your post and feel content with the time they spent on your blog⊠and if so, they will gladly engage or respond to a call to action.
So, if you want comments, ask them to comment. If you want shares, ask them to share!
Donât be shy â your readers LIKE YOU and want to engage with you! Sometimes they just need a little reminder.
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
I promise you, if you follow these 11 tips and really learn how to write engaging blog posts, your target audience will fall in love with you! They will engage with your posts, which will in turn, help you to grow.
Blog growth equals more impact and more income, and that is always a good thing!
A brief summary for you speedy scrollers out there:
Hereâs how to write engaging blog posts that your audience will love: figure out who your target reader is and what theyâre searching for online. Write content that is relevant and useful to them. Make sure itâs focused, relatable, easy to read, and full of personality! Then ask your readers to engage with your post at the end.
Boom â awesome blog post.
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See what I did there?? Call-to-action, baby!


Cate,
First, thank you for even more awesome blogging tips. Your articles and courses have been incredibly helpful to me.
Iâve been blogging for over 8 years, have been through ups and downs with my site, and was close to quitting at the end of 2019. I have some great support from family to rebrand but your information has also been a blog saver!
While I did want to thank you, I also wanted to let you know that I found a typo. Lol I absolutely loved that comedy show you refer to in tip #7. Therefore, I was especially reading close in that section (not scrolling! đ). Instead of â that are not going to want to engage with youâ, I believe it should be a âtheyâ.
I surely am not one to correct anyoneâs article, but ironically in a section about being relatable and engaging?! Well it just makes you even more relatable and so I am engaging! đ
Youâre the best and again thank you for the inspiration to keep at this gig. Blogging is almost, dare I say, as hard as parenting! đ
Such amazing tips, Cate! I tend to ramble although I feel like every word has a purpose, I need to step back and delete a little. Lol!
Thank you so much for the PSA to make blog fonts bigger. I can tell which bloggers are under 40 based on this one thing.
So very complete post with a lot of useful informations. I will try to apply them myself in my newborn blog about pet photography. I know itâs surely a hard niche to explode audience but Iâm experiencing some fun in writing about what I love. So I simply blog, no matter what! I think this is the secret of successful blogs: no need to struggle in search of readers. As you say, if you offer something quality-worthy, people will come back easily! Keep up the good work!
I agree, just don’t stop writing and improving and giving your readers more of what they want, and you’ll do just fine! Thanks for reading!
Yes! I have several older bloggers that email me and thank me for using a readable font, it’s so important for user experience! Tiny fonts are very hard on the eyes on mobile phones especially. Thanks for reading!
If your readers love your ramble, that is totally fine! Just make sure you always draw a circle back to the main point to help them through the article! Thanks for reading.
Thank you so much for the message and for letting me know about the typo! I’ll fix this right now (other people’s typos don’t bother me too much but my own drive me crazy)! Thanks for reading and following along.
Hi Cate. I am one of those readers who need big and bold! Thanks for the tip. I just started blogging and am gobbling up tips and pointers. I will start implementing your tools and tips to engage my readers.
Thanks!
Great to hear it!
All awesome points. I especially like the idea of using larger font. I know that makes it way more easier for me to read the article, and I’m likely to read the entire article!
Yes, I get this feedback a lot! So many blogs are not mobile friendly. Thanks for reading!